Remember when you first fell in love?

The feeling was like nothing else in the world. It was like nobody else in the world had ever understood and seen you so deeply.

But now you’re deep into the relationship, and things have changed. They’ve done “that thing” again for the millionth time.

It’s so frustrating and triggering.

You try to get past it, work through it and try to get them to change, but that hasn't worked, has it?

At this point, you feel hopeless about it. “Is this just the way they are? Do I just need to learn how to live with it?”

You want to be ok with it, but you’re not.

You’ve gone to therapy, tried to listen and be heard, see and be seen. If you could just communicate better, say the right words in the right tone, everything could be fine.

But it just doesn’t shift—or if it does, it’s not for long.

What if there was another way? And what if it could be playful and sexy?

We tend to think of our triggers with each other as the things that turn us off and frustrates us the most. Maybe even have us question our entire relationship or make us want to swap our partner for someone who can give us what we truly want.

But what if the experience that you are having is exactly what you are wanting? What if you love that they are this way? And what if you are actually getting off on it?

Get ready to transform your triggers with each other into turn-on!

In this approach we find the places that we actually love what we are experiencing with our partner through identifying our shadow—the thing that is unconsciously driving us. 

From there we learn to play with it—we go into the dynamic using play and erotic energy, which allows it to move through the system energetically.

It’s time to move that stuck energy between you and your partner. 

Stop processing and start playing.