Meet Jim

Hi, I’m Jim.

I’ve spent the better part of two decades, and literally hundreds of thousands of dollars, on learning personal development tools. 

From therapy and coaching to workshops, books, and audios—my life has been a non-stop personal development process. 

These tools were all helpful along the way, and I still use them, but it wasn’t until the past few years that I realized there was another way. 

In my search for more enlightenment, I was ignoring something really important—the dark. 

When I say “the dark,” I mean the shadow—which to me means, instead of trying to change, simply being with what is.

When we are with what is, we have more acceptance of our experience, and our enjoyment levels start to rise—not because we are trying to change our experience, but because we are truly choosing it.

As I started to use the dark approach in romantic relationships—both my own, and working with others—I realized this not only a set of tools, but a way of thinking that is truly transformative. 

I found that when I was willing to look in the dark—and play with it—that I was able to move the stuck energy that had been plaguing me for so long. 

Doing Erotic Shadow Play with my romantic partner was the key to us allowing the energy to transform rather than reverting to endless processing. 

When we move the energy, we are able to transform triggers into turn-on, and now couples are using this process to transform some of their toughest relational issues.

Having light tools is essential, but until you merge them with dark play, you are missing half of the equation. 

I’d love to introduce you to the dark tools where you can truly accept yourself and your partner, and get on the path to transforming triggers into turn-on. 

To take the next step, come join me on the next live workshop.